I got into a HUGE arguement with a total b*tch & i have no clue what to do! please help?

Gloria, you have a right to stand up for your reputation and your respect. Make sure you act out of good intentions, never out of uncontrolled anger. Make sure you aren't the bully here, and remember many of those other people have abused pasts as well. This world is filled with people with harmful secrets and hurt egos. Many of them act like bullies because of those harmful memories. Its better to make friends of them than enemies, and those can make powerful allies. Like you, I suffer from an abused past, and hope you will be my friend.