What should we do about the rise of dominatrix, cuckolds, pedofiles, rapists and abusive relationships?

I think relatioships are normal but i do know that straight people find it personally disgusting but can see that it is normal...there will be respect here in the future if it isn't here already. however, many lump the horrendous abusive relatioships into the same category and I was wondering if the ual community was going to distance themselves from the previously mentioned...do they have to...maybe, i have heard some guy on tv rant about all ual relationship being ok...he was on bill maher...and he seemed to even disturb bill...i think the best way for the LGBT community to move forward would be to take a stand against the underbelly of the world, not to empathize with them (as I have heard this too)